Which Are The Four Agreements

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„The Four Accords“ not only gave me the four chords by which I made small positive changes in my life, but the book also helped me understand the process of „domestication“ and how this „Domest“ shaped my belief systems. Thank you, Allan, for sharing your wisdom. I am honored that someone of your stature would take the time to read my article and clarify the importance of the agreements. The word is not just a written sound or symbol. The word is a strength; it is the power that you must express and communicate, think and create events in your life. The word is the most powerful instrument you have as a man; It is the tool of magic. But like a two-sided sword, your word can create the most beautiful dream, or your word can destroy everything around you. An edge is the abuse of the word that creates a living hell. The other edge is the incomprehability of speech, which will only create beauty, love and heaven on earth. Depending on how it is used, the word can free you, or it can enslave you even more than you know. Miguel comfortably changes the writing from „was God,“ which has clearly passed, to „is God“ – clearly a manipulative attempt to convey the current permanent tension to justify his principle himself. We have to break many old arrangements and change a lot of domesticated beliefs to really keep a space for someone who hurts us or who is angry without judging to withdraw, defend, accuse, intellectualize, share their dream.

Communicating with ourselves, not taking things personally (#2) gives us the opportunity to look inward, to find and change the old arrangements and beliefs — most of the lies of our domestication in childhood — that involve us emotionally and push us to react. The author of the article describes precisely the „dream“ of people that distorts what people say or do. It is a powerful gift from Toltec Wisdom. As for intransition, this word certainly has the connotation of perfectionism, and if we take it that way, we would indeed go crazy. (Besides, the impeccability and other agreements you make with yourself, not the requirements that Ruiz imposes on you.) On the other hand, if you engage perfectly with your word as your goal, if you commit to be as honest and kind as possible with your words, without waiting for perfection of yourself or to fight if you are too short, this agreement could improve your well-being with yourself.